Single? Unattached? Celebrating Valentine’s Day? Yes, You Are.

I am my own Valentine

It’s coming. Again. And every year, there are people who look forward to Valentine’s Day, and some who don’t. It’s nice if you have a special someone to share the day or evening with, and for some, not so nice if you don’t. This year, if you’re someone special who doesn’t have a special someone to share the day with, don’t fret. I’m here to tell you, you do.

Yes, you do. YOU!  Let’s face it, we get so caught up in the have to’s, the must do’s, and the should’s, that we cause and create much stress and anxiety for ourselves, all the while trying to find the balance in the rat race of work, life and finding love. But you’ve forgotten one thing, one very important thing. Yourself. How can you love someone, and how can someone love you, when you’ve forgotten to love yourself?

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be the pressure-cooker of dates and finding love that the media and marketers have cooked it up to be. This year, if you find yourself flying solo, embrace it. Sometimes things are the way they are, for you. Sometimes, in unwanted situations, there’s a gift, and here, on this day, the gift may just be the gift of being able to give to yourself. You love yourself, right? You deserve some personal TLC from none other, than yours truly…YOU.

No victims here. Enjoy the day. Make it an event. You’re incredible. Special. A very important person. Give to yourself. Treat yourself. This can be your special day. Get together with friends. See a movie, grab a bite, or stay in and get cozy with your favourite meal and a great movie. We never seem to get enough “me -time” anyway. Have fun, enjoy, but also spend some quiet time with yourself, to think, reflect, re-group, and re-evaluate. Growth and clarity often comes when we spend that quiet and meaningful time with ourselves, and this is my wish for you. You are empowered to think any way you choose, and to live any way you choose. Live it well, and enjoy YOU! Happy Valentine’s Day You!

 

Lauren xo

www.laurenmillman.com    Tel: 416-576-5881

 

 

Trust Is An Absolute

 

When it comes to key attributes that fuel authentic relationships,”Trust” stands out as the rare absolute.

Simply put, without complete trust, you can never be truly connected.

Relationships deprived of authentic connection are doomed to suffocate in the sterile confines of disillusionment and narcissism.

A true relationship is ultimately a dance of mutual vulnerability that, in tandem, welcomes a mutual advancement beyond the confines of what is “comfortably numb” to secure the rapturous terrain  of the indefinably Unknown.

Together; as a unit, each is partner is validated and witnessed within the promising halo of their greater soul. And together they launch undauntedly onto the task of unwrapping the knots that bind their greater selves.

 

– ❤ Is

www.twitter.com/TrueLoveIs

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Intimate Surrender

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It is about true love and intimacy, and if a soul bares residue expressions of shame, then these de-facto stifle one’s own advance, and hamper one with feelings of inadequacy.

The more one remains linear minded about their trajectory, the more one will find themselves thwarted by feelings of being unworthy and in deficit. Even slight traces of shame, boil to the fore in the face of ascending to such gloriously intimate levels of being. Personal judgments, and their fetishes for parsimony, weigh heavily upon the soul climbing tiers of greater consciousness and push its own progression back down to lower and baser vibratory fields of expression. These souls then find themsleves too ashamed to warrant such intimacy, and become conflicted with feelings that they are benefitting so much and having had contributed so very little.

On this context, they cannot adequately justify their own existence. In romantic terms, this is akin to lovers that feel compelled to close their eyes when exchanging expressions of unabashed intimacy, finding themselves incapable of sharing eye to eye as equals.

This is because their heart does not know the soul language of true love, which is essentially unconditional, and occupying the more intimate spaces in proximity to creations’ benevolent source. Without this vital chord of expression, a soul is destined to become stuck in cycles of feelings of inadequacy, anger, callousness or atrophy.

@TrueLoveIS – inspirational phrases on twitter:

https://twitter.com/trueloveis

 

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A Forever Moment

Love is a happening, a forever moment, it imbues your individuality & charts the course of your soft dawning to romance the sanctity eclipsed within.

– (<3 is)

 

 

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